Nexhat Çoçaj

Prizren | Date: April 25, 2025 | Duration: 50 minutes

At that time, the information office was in the premises of the mosque in Kruma, within the headquarters of the KLA. All those individuals who had either experienced rape by Serbian soldiers and police, or those family members who wanted to reunite with their families, came and presented themselves there, and we, as members of the KLA, helped the population to reunite. One case of particular interest in this regard was when Sadije Morina from Raushiq of Peja, whose child had died, didn’t want to leave it, even dead, to the police. On the other hand, she didn’t want her own family to find out that the child had died, and she kept the dead child for 24 hours, before reaching Durrës, giving him the bottle, and the bottle froze in his mouth, because when a person dies, they stiffen, and the bottle froze…When she crossed the border, the bottle, with the milk inside, was in the closed mouth of the dead child, and another woman approached [Sadije] at Qafa e Prushit, where the Albanian military forces, who were helping those crossing through the mountains, were located, and she said, “Is it possible for you to give me that milk so I can give it to my baby?” She replied, “No, it’s not possible because my child has died and I cannot take out the bottle.” I wrote the novella The Milk of Death based on this interviewed.


Aela Bektashi (Interviewer), Aldri Sopa (Interviewer and Camera)

Nexhat Çoçaj was born on February 1, 1964 in Gjonaj të Hasit. He graduated from the Faculty of Philology in the University of Prishtina and earned a Doctoral Degree at the Qendër e Studimeve Albanologjikë in Tirana. During the war, he joined the Kosovo Liberation Army. He worked as a journalist and a teacher, and was the  Director of the Department of  Education in Prizren. As a poet and an ethnologist, he is the author of several publications.